How Lily Match actually works.
Match isn't a sorted list. It's a model that ranks fit across eight identity-aware dimensions, plus modality, availability, and economic accessibility — refreshed every time anyone changes anything.
Tell us who you are
8-step intake. Identity, lived experience, language, faith, neurodivergence — only what you choose to share.
Tell us what you want
Modality preference, schedule windows, in-person or telehealth, insurance or sliding scale.
Swipe to feel the fit
Each card shows the why — match score, identity affinities, modality. Swipe right to book, left to pass. Lily learns either way.
Book, meet, re-match
Free 15-min intro. If it doesn't fit, re-match in one tap. No conversation needed.
Identity-aware doesn't mean identity-only.
The model weighs modality fit, availability, and access alongside identity — because the relationship is the medicine, but you still need an appointment that fits in your week.
- Race, ethnicity, immigration story
- Gender identity, sexual orientation
- Faith & spirituality
- Neurodivergence & disability
- Language fluency
- Therapeutic modality (CBT, EMDR, IFS, somatic, more)
- Real-time availability
- Insurance, sliding scale, fee transparency